This article is not for the faint at heart; it is for that woman who knows what she wants and will stretch out her hand and grab it. It is for that femme fatale who won't wait around like "the damsel in distress" for a guy to come and rescue. It is for that lady who is similar to "Edie Brits'" character in Desperate Housewives.
If you qualify, then read on to discover how you can propose marriage to your guy and knock him off of his feet (just don't swing too hard a'ight?).
Number 1 - Know Your Future Spouse
Before proceeding to the rest of the points below, you need to consider this point very seriously! There is no point proposing to your man (or any man for that matter) if he will be threatened by the gesture. So think about it seriously...
To know whether or not if that will be the case requires knowledge about your future husband - is he the type to be easily threatened by a marriage proposal from a woman? Is he mentally prepared for marriage? Is he an ego freak (that is, would he feel emasculated if you do the asking)?
You need to realize that he may want to be the one "on bended knees not you" - [Gloomy detour: I am reminded of that amazing group of fantastic singers; Boyz II Men. They sang "on bended knees" which happens to be one of my all time favorite jamz - I really miss them (sob!)]
Number 2 - Set the Stage
Now that you are sure your man is up for this, you need to put some thoughts into choosing the venue where you will propose to him.
This could be his favorite hangout (think; diner, snooker bar / joint, a secluded camping site, a fancy restaurant, a golf course at sunset etcetera. You must understand that this is not about you any longer so whether or not you think his favorite hang out is romantic or not is really not up to you. You should trust in the taste of your man.
Number 3 - Be Flexible
You need to be prepared to go with the flow. If you told him that you will take him out and he chooses to go to a French restaurant instead of the snooker bar, go with the flow.
The only reason why you would insist is if your plans involve other people or specifically pre-planned events.
Number 4 - Bring a Gift Along
Remember to buy and engagement gift - buy him an item that will last for a while. At this point you may choose to leave out an engagement ring as that might be too much for him (but again you know best).
Number 5 - Give Him Time to Be Shocked
Note that no matter how much your guy knows you, he really may not be prepared for this. So give him a while for the shock of it to wear off. Do not rush him.
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